The author considers to be gay is the important distiniction of what kind of sex an individual enjoys most.

Sex and it's lust conclusions would help a person decide whether he or she is more excited or enjoys more the pleasures recieved by involvement with the same sex.

Sexual orgasm can be attained by one's self or with partners of either sex. It is therefore my opinion that people would want to go with what produces the greatest pleasures. That factor demonstrates that choice is part of the gay equation!

The author believes that being gay should not cause a loss of any benefit legal and enjoyed by the rest of the population.

Marriage should be allowed for those primary reasons that would entitle gay couples to all that American's are entitled!

                                              The author

p.s. Getting some flack over the book's idea that being "gay" is in any degree a choice.

Webster describes "gay" as a homosexual. My point being, to be distinguished as straight or gay is determined by your sexual lifestyle. So in my mind it's mostly about the sex and all other aspects of your lifestyle do not carry a label. I do believe that there is natural reasons why a "gay" person chooses that style also!