I'm taking a little heat for endorsing cheating as some readers have interpreted parts in the book.

There is no endorsement of that as a healthy choice and I can state emphatically, that's a bad choice.

As research goes you pass on the findings and there is a lot of that situation as an alternative to splitting. When the only issue is sex and every other factor is okay, some broad minded couples have found that tolerable and worth it to save all other parts of a continued relationship.

The best situation of this is when one of the partner's libido far exceeds the other. To accomplish a change to reduce or enhance someone's sexual appetite isn't too likely.

Only in a situation of mutual agreement and jealousy does not enter the personality of the situation that may work and in fact does for a number of my correspondents.

It is offered as an example, not a recommendation!

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